A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the padi field and choose the biggest padi and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick." The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big padi, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is a even bigger one waiting for him. Later, when he finished more than half of the padi field, he start to realize that the padi is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted !!!!
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher told him, "this is love. you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person."
"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn. you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get, this is marriage."
Saw this in one of the blog when I am blog hopping.
I like the story.
It is really saying out all the voices of all.
It is ok to fall as long as you able to get up again.
Some may need more time while some will get over it soon.
If you happened to let go,
try to salvage before it is too late.
If cant, let it go.
It is past, it will be a great memory for you.
Cherish present and what you had neglected.
Take a step back and take a look at your surroundings.
头发剪短了 可以在长
辛福失去了 未必找的到
就象断了线的风筝
要懂的珍惜 才不怕失去
而我们往往 在失去后才懂的珍惜
回美满的婚姻 不是理所当然的
努力经营 才会有持久的幸福
但是有时 并不是努力就可以的
Veggiies
Sheepies : Here's your pic of your xiang gong! And Wang too. They look like twins right?
